what church callings have you had and which did you enjoy the most? 

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We moved around a lot growing up, we would visit local churches in the area, but before we could really settle in to one, we would move again. 

Then my dad retired, and we started going to Epworth Methodist, a small friendly church where we had to share the preacher with several other churches in the county.

I enjoyed going to Sunday School and MYF, loved singing the old hymns, being a part of bigger family. 

Dinner on the grounds, revivals, picnics, cookouts – it seems everything involved food - a good way to get folks to come, I suppose!

what can frighten you the most and why? 

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I have always been afraid of snakes, not sure why. They are so quiet and sneaky, hard to see, deadly. After moving to the country when I was 10, we saw quite a few. My dad would kill one, hang it up on a tree or fence – something about the mate would see it and stay away. I had a long walk from the school bus to the house, and I would run all the way, afraid a snake would drop out of a tree.

what is the most exciting place that you have ever been to and why? 

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standing on the edge of the Grand Canyon

deafened by the sound of Niagara Falls

riding the cog railway to the top of Pikes Peak

straddling the continental divide in the Rockies

hearing the ca-ching of a slot machine in Reno

crossing the Golden Gate bridge

gazing up at the giant redwoods

climbing to the top of Mt. LeConte

Sometimes the most exciting place is right in your backyard -

the first hummingbird of spring

watching deer cross through the yard

the first bloom of spring

watch the first leaf fall

the first snow

Or even in your living room -

the miracle of babies – first words, first steps

family gatherings – Thanksgiving dinners

hugs from grandkids

did you have a close relationship with your grandparents – tell about it… 

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I was never close to my grandparents as a young child, as we always lived far away, until my grandmother moved next door to us in Georgia in her older years.

She was very independent and drove a baby blue Oldsmobile. She decided to drive to Missouri to my cousin’s wedding.

I went along to help her drive – I wonder now if that was orchestrated by my mom so my grandmother would not be alone on the long trip.

Whatever the reason, it was a great road trip. We stayed in motels and ate at restaurants – something my parents and I never did.

I got to see all the distant relatives and spend some time with my grandmother.

Tell about home cures or old wives tales, hiccups, toothaches, earaches, arthritis.

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I remember my brother taking sulfur and molasses to prevent chiggers from biting him, it seems the sulfur smell comes out of your pores and smells bad so the chiggers won’t bite…

holding an aspirin on a toothache until it melts

putting butter on burns

Coke for hiccups (after holding my breath didn’t work)

gargle with warm salt water for a sore throat

Clorox on a wasp sting

starve a fever, feed a cold – or was it the other way around?

Of course the most effective cures came from my mom:

a stern look would stop you in your tracks 

a swat on the backside would send you to your room

a hickory switch cured a whole lot of things – smart mouth, arguing, fighting with your brother…

were you responsible for household chores? what were they? which did you enjoy most/least?

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the baby of the family – what chores?

I sort of remember loading the dishwasher occasionally.

I would attempt to straighten up the living room if I had a date…

Though this was a good situation at the time, unfortunately I never learned to wash clothes, cook, or clean house before leaving home.

Describe getting a Christmas tree as a child, when did you put it up and decorate it?

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When I was 10 we moved to the mountains and, for the first time in my lifetime, we had our own land to find a tree. 

We would head out on foot, carrying a saw, and start our search.  When we picked the winner for that year, Dad would cut it down and we would drag it back to the house.  My dad would nail a couple of boards on the bottom so it would stand up (I did not know you were supposed to water Christmas trees until I moved away from home). 

Our trees were not always perfect like those we could buy in town, but they were ours from our property, and most important – free! 

It would sit in front of the big windows in the living room, ready for all the lights and ornaments we had saved over the years.  And of course, those silver icicles!

did you and your father share any interest together – what and why? 

(on today’s slip of paper drawn from the jar)

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my father was…

tall, dark, and handsome

the strong silent type

light-hearted

easy going

laid back

a great kidder

could add large numbers in his head

served in the military for 24 years

traveled the world

would haul me around to ballgames, dances, friend’s houses

was very patient

down to earth

soft spoken

was a big flirt (according to my mom)

I always thought I took after my dad, until I made this list.  I think we had the same personality, easy going.  I wish I had gotten to know him better.   

Tell about the houses you lived in childhood – addresses, phone #s, etc.

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Oh which house?  Where to begin?

There was the house in the country near Ft. Bragg, North Carolina – big yard, garden.  I was in first grade, and I remember this was our first house after living in Army housing, and my parents went back to their roots – growing vegetables, canning, freezing.  I witnessed first hand what it means by ‘running around like a chicken with its head cut off’.  My dad went to Korea while we lived there, my mom got a job, and my brother and I became latch-key kids.  Once when we came home from school, the house had been broken into.  My brother said he was going to call the sheriff.  I thought he had lost his mind, they don’t have sheriffs any more – that is just on Gunsmoke – call the police!  The TV dinner was popular at our house during this time, and my mom would save the aluminum comparted trays and refill them with home cooking for our own personal TV dinners. 

Then the next house was a duplex in Army housing at Fort Rucker, Alabama.  This was great fun, paved sidewalks for bike riding, lots of neighborhood kids to play with, warm weather, just 90 minutes from the beach at Panama City, Florida.  We would walk from the school in a line down the sidewalk through the houses to the nearby playground or swimming pool.  Once while walking single file a mom ran out to tell our 4th grade teacher about the assassination of President Kennedy.  Also while living on the base, my mom became very good at bowling and even golf. 

After leaving LA (lower Alabama) when my dad retired, we moved to the mountains of North Georgia.  Our first house was just a little 4 room shack house without a bathroom.  It was an adventure to say the least.  My folks once again went back to nature and their roots, planting a garden, having chickens, and even a couple of calves.  The little house served as a roof over our heads for a couple of years while my dad built us a new house.  My brother was 5 years older than me, he listened to the Beatles and  Roger Miller.  While in the little house I joined many other young girls in watching the Monkees – ooohhh Davy Jones!  By the time we got in the new house, my brother was out of high school and well on his way out of the house.  The house had wonderful large windows – floor to ceiling – along with a beautiful front door and mantlepiece that had been salvaged from an old house torn down by my father. 

As a military family, we moved around a lot and did not develop ties to any one place.  The longest time I spent in any of our houses was about 5 years.  There is no old homeplace to go back to visit, to pass down to the kids and grandkids.  There are just places we stopped for a while before moving on to the next place.  But it was always home where ever we were, a home with a family and a pet or two. 

I feel fortunate to have married into the family I have now, everyone is so close.  My husband and his sisters only ever lived in one house growing up, the one their dad built.  The land we live on now has been in the family for over a half century, and plans are to pass it on for future generations.  

one word on how to live successfully…

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what is success? 

Webster’s defines it as:  favorable or desired outcome; the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence.

what is your definition of success?

a mother may think success is getting through a rough day with a toddler, or worse yet – tweens

one’s idea of success may be attaining her goal of making that long anticipated trip to Fiji

another may have a long term goal of wealth and fame

so what is it, the key to success, secret of success?

first figure out what success is to you, then go for it

if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again

okay, I think I have it, the one word to success is

WORK

Hard work spotlights the character of people; some turn up their sleeves, some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all